tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.comments2024-03-11T00:04:47.047-07:00Extraordinary PassionShakti Amaranthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comBlogger248125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-56116025921849125222022-08-29T03:45:45.403-07:002022-08-29T03:45:45.403-07:00My SO and I, and most people we've talked to a...My SO and I, and most people we've talked to about it, simply alternate long kegels and reverse kegels in their regular routines. I basically go "Crunch-hold-relax-push out," and repeat.<br />If you want a more complete answer, the best place to ask questions is on Reddit. You can sign up and then subscribe to the r/tantricsex subreddit. It's all free.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-73246132736979796422022-08-29T03:35:13.717-07:002022-08-29T03:35:13.717-07:00Hi! The best place to ask questions is on Reddit. ...Hi! The best place to ask questions is on Reddit. You can create an account and then subscribe to the r/tantricsex subreddit and others. It's all free.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-84618039108128899702022-08-12T08:07:54.012-07:002022-08-12T08:07:54.012-07:00Thank you. I found a good gyno through NVA who und...Thank you. I found a good gyno through NVA who understood VVS. Thank you thank you thank you. My skeins and bartholin's gland were super inflamed, so it wasn't in my head. Still figuring out what caused it, but so thankful that I understand why I had years of pain. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-62580259491524141522022-06-22T12:57:50.738-07:002022-06-22T12:57:50.738-07:00I often read that reverse kegels are as important ...I often read that reverse kegels are as important if not more important than regular kegels as it's more important to lean to relax the pelvic floor muscles when it comes to an orgasmic ejaculation. I don't see any mentions of reverse kegels on the golden blog though.<br /><br />What's your opinion on it Shakti?<br /><br />Thank you so muchMadtrackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14581621193037144717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-86958446174152061372022-05-26T15:41:03.639-07:002022-05-26T15:41:03.639-07:00Hi, I am in south jersey near Philadelphia. I am s...Hi, I am in south jersey near Philadelphia. I am single and want to know more unhappyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11424679730670039307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-31877071725042050722022-04-17T17:37:59.218-07:002022-04-17T17:37:59.218-07:00As somebody posted above, “this is the best thing ...As somebody posted above, “this is the best thing I’ve ever read”Geoffreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13256491150480113090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-55573895542624971932022-04-07T09:03:09.554-07:002022-04-07T09:03:09.554-07:00Yes! I totally agree!Yes! I totally agree!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-51939698754237581772022-04-07T09:02:24.921-07:002022-04-07T09:02:24.921-07:00Sounds great, but I wish it was more visual, that ...Sounds great, but I wish it was more visual, that it had drawings of each step, it's hard to picture just with text, sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-59223397776594982522022-03-16T09:51:35.426-07:002022-03-16T09:51:35.426-07:00You blog is fantástico very important inf You blog is fantástico very important inf gaze the senseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02378671017759534873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-39998532546284313772022-01-02T21:10:28.863-08:002022-01-02T21:10:28.863-08:00It is a very informative and useful post thanks it...It is a very informative and useful post thanks it is good material to read this post increases my knowledge.LuxFetishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12856152564145355136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-90222660901013949152021-11-22T16:17:00.377-08:002021-11-22T16:17:00.377-08:00Amazing tip! Thank you so much for such a detailed...Amazing tip! Thank you so much for such a detailed guide!Gilbert Swannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04460393162936080614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-6221479593402181382021-11-02T01:44:52.709-07:002021-11-02T01:44:52.709-07:00I hang out mostly on Reddit these day, where I mod...I hang out mostly on Reddit these day, where I moderate r/tantricsex. That would be a good place to find answers to your question. Requests for recommended reading materials crop up fairly often, and it's a good community.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-79871685534843756072021-11-02T01:33:25.943-07:002021-11-02T01:33:25.943-07:00I originally interviewed 59 couples, but added one...I originally interviewed 59 couples, but added one more a few years later. So, in this case, it was 5 out of 60 women, or a bit over 8%.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-57428982673160596052021-11-02T01:22:47.422-07:002021-11-02T01:22:47.422-07:00I hang out mostly on Reddit these day. I moderate ...I hang out mostly on Reddit these day. I moderate r/tantricsex, but there are other subreddits dealing with human evolution, evo psych, etc., that discuss these and other related ideas.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-41098211931772046412021-11-02T01:09:12.524-07:002021-11-02T01:09:12.524-07:00Should be fixed now. Thank you for alerting me!Should be fixed now. Thank you for alerting me!Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-76234771910174708172021-11-02T00:21:44.479-07:002021-11-02T00:21:44.479-07:00In this case, I meant a normal "wet" org...In this case, I meant a normal "wet" orgasm, one with ejaculation. I discuss the possibility of learning to have dry orgasms quite a bit later in the blog.<br /><br />I still recommend doing the man's massage first for most couples, even if the man can have dry ones.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-42252321224190851202021-10-16T13:56:00.172-07:002021-10-16T13:56:00.172-07:00Woman on top is the best sex position ever. Man ca...Woman on top is the best sex position ever. Man can last longer and he has wonderful view, woman can has better, stronger orgasms. Cowgirl the most comfortable position for couples.Steve1https://www.blogger.com/profile/04300218595859361707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-20297758974704856402021-09-27T21:05:09.622-07:002021-09-27T21:05:09.622-07:00Links arent wotkingLinks arent wotkingBikashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09593471847802740911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-61276433736748789912021-09-18T16:18:31.361-07:002021-09-18T16:18:31.361-07:00Hey Shakti, great stuff.
I've thought for a l...Hey Shakti, great stuff. <br />I've thought for a long time about how our biology isn't designed for modern life, even though we've tried to design modern life for our biology, and the best way to bridge that gap. And <br /><br />(2) That our biology, diet, sex, aggression, etc. are designed to be highly variable, making bridging the gap even more complicated. <br /><br />I haven't read your whole blog but I am dying for people to discuss these topics with. I am a male, 25. Reading your blog has legitimized tantra for me as well. Do you have any recommendations for connecting with others who want to tackle and apply these same ideas? Shafi Nossnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-30826325794008601192021-08-16T00:55:32.160-07:002021-08-16T00:55:32.160-07:00When you say that a "man orgasms" do you...When you say that a "man orgasms" do you also imply the act of ejaculation? Or is it simply an orgasm?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00853062759501936037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-57258538147922100642021-07-15T15:34:42.626-07:002021-07-15T15:34:42.626-07:00Hi Montez.
I'm about your size and had had th...Hi Montez.<br /><br />I'm about your size and had had the same type of insecurity for a lot of time mostly due to porn.<br /><br />Then again if I only go by the feedback of actual women there's absolutely no reason to be insecure about my size (neither for me nor you).<br /><br />I've had sex with about 30 women so far and the comments on my penis or its size were of the following types:<br /><br />- You have the perfect dick for me<br />- it's amazing how well you fill me up<br />- I think your dick is awesome (it's big and has a nice shape)<br />- your dick is a bit too big for me and it causes me pain<br />- babyface but superman-dick<br />- ohh, it's big!<br />- seems like average (while she grabbed it through the pants), but don't worry, I'm small.<br />- it's quite long!<br />- Thank god that your dick is not (so/very) thick, I always had pain with the thick dick of my ex boyfriend <br /><br />Never has a girl said to me that she needed it bigger (longer/thicker).<br /><br />Please also consider that some of these comments seem to favor bigger sizes, considering mine already as big, but keep in mind that many women will want to make you feel good about your size and thus will possibly make positive comments about it being big (if it is above average) to stroke your ego a little bit (because they know that size is an insecurity for many men and that men would like to be well endowed in most cases).<br /><br /><br />My recommendations for you:<br /><br />- Completely stop all kinds of porn consumption, to stop the brainwashing and allow your brain to rewire<br /><br />- Consider all the points of the article above and realize how much of a cognitive distortion you've got going in your mind<br /><br />- Learn about a technique called "emotional freedom technique" (eft) aka "tapping" to free yourself from your penis insecurities (MOST IMPORTANT POINT OF ALL!)<br />When working with this technique it's important to be precise or specific,<br />You will have to think about your insecurity/fear in ways that would usually bring up these limiting emotions.The tapping will have a calming effect on the brain's fear center (the limbic brain) which leads to a reprocessing of the fear-relevant information stored in your brain, i.e. the content of your fearful thoughts, thus these thoughts will lose their emotional charge (but it can take several times until a thought is neutralized),<br />I hope all of this makes sense, in my experience this is by far the fastest technique to delete negative beliefs and emotions from your subconscious mind, where these would usually linger for a lot of time...<br /><br />- masturbate to just your own thoughts, but only maybe 1-2 times per week AND take time when doing so. So maybe 15 minutes or longer to get used to tolerating long times of stimulation instead of blowing your load after 1 minute (if this is an issue)<br /><br />- also: imagine having sex with YOUR penis (penetrating a girl e.g.) in order to teach your brain to associate your own penis (in combination with the girl) with sexual arousal/horniness and confidence instead of some kind of insecurity/inadequacy.<br />If doing so brings up insecurity instead of arousal use the above-mentioned technique eft to work on this type of thoughts. <br /><br />- Learn techniques to please women with your hands and mouth <br /><br />- have actual sex with real girls or your one special girlfriend<br /><br />Ok, that's it.<br />I wish you lots of success!<br /><br />Greetings,<br /><br />FredAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15486510748753013735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-20125736763334540402021-06-01T23:32:14.202-07:002021-06-01T23:32:14.202-07:00I really enjoy your postings and have learned a lo...I really enjoy your postings and have learned a lot so far. I'm hoping to show my husband this website and hope we can learn together. I feel like I often go the other way when having sex like... I feel like if I don't sound or look like I'm enjoying it enough that it will be a turn off so I fear I may over exaggerate... I'm not faking really, I just think I spend more mental energy worry about stuff rather than being in the moment.... And now I'm scared if I change or stop he will think something is wrong bc now I'm not as vocal. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-10522445655012996282021-05-19T08:34:28.095-07:002021-05-19T08:34:28.095-07:00This is fascinating to me! Unfortunately it'll...This is fascinating to me! Unfortunately it'll be a good several years before I can explore Tantra. I feel like this requires someone not to have children under the age of 12! 3-4 hours uninterrupted of waking time is not something we ever come by! But, I love all these tips and simple profound explanations for differences in people's way of operating. Thank you so much for this article. I'm going to have to look more at your blog! :-)Dragonmama008https://www.blogger.com/profile/16356299296465348089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-80500644270171085712021-05-16T02:17:28.975-07:002021-05-16T02:17:28.975-07:00> only five said
...of how many?> only five said<br /><br />...of how many?betlamedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14859006136534657422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-40709964967123479052021-05-08T18:01:39.547-07:002021-05-08T18:01:39.547-07:00I think what you said in one of the comments above...I think what you said in one of the comments above is not stressed enough but very important. I've been doing a long squeeze, thus forcing a retrograde ejaculation for a long time, and only now do I realize the mistake!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com