I love being on top. As I've mentioned before, the "cowgirl" position is pretty close to a standard for a lot of couples after the yab-yum stage during
tantra, but I also love it for regular sex. My partner and I tend to begin that way more often than not. But after getting several private questions and a plaintive one on another website, I've begun to realize that a fair number of women are scared to try it, so I thought I would share some tips.
This was the question:
How do you support yourself as a woman when you are on top during sex? Do you move up and down or do you rock back and forth? Are you sitting completely upright? Besides being shy about "being on top," I don't really know the logistics of how to do it. Any tips?