tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post6483354937809378389..comments2024-03-11T00:04:47.047-07:00Comments on Extraordinary Passion: Welcome to Extraordinary Passion!Shakti Amaranthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-91105355848270444382019-11-19T09:52:59.462-08:002019-11-19T09:52:59.462-08:00Hi Shakti! I'm in the process of producing a c...Hi Shakti! I'm in the process of producing a conference to happen in Brooklyn, NY next May. I am in search of somebody who can share a practical (non-spiritual/religious) introduction to tantra. You seem like a good fit! If interested, and you are not too far away, can you send me an email so we can discuss? Thanks so much! <br />Greg<br /><br />gregkieser at gmailGreg Kieserhttp://www.supersystemic.lynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-52477662406314817842019-10-20T06:20:33.914-07:002019-10-20T06:20:33.914-07:00I have a partner I share tantric sex with. We are ...I have a partner I share tantric sex with. We are both senior citizens, and have the time and inclination to take our time building ourselves to meaningful orgasms. The longest session we have had sucking each other's cocks and prostate massage has been 5 hours. It has been a great learning experience, finding the perfect edge to keep each other aroused to. We definitely produce larger loads of semen during these sessions. Certainly more than we produce when we just give one another a quick casual blowjob. Swallowshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185351134016203632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-8854302760847800522019-07-28T14:21:20.200-07:002019-07-28T14:21:20.200-07:00I'm glad to have found your blog! I'm a si...I'm glad to have found your blog! I'm a single woman, early 50's, and have not had partner sex in over 20 years. My libido was dead for much of that time, various stressful life circumstances (poverty, caregiving, depression, deaths, etc.).<br />After recovering from another death, the menopausal transition began and libido came back. What the heck? A bit late in the game it seems but I'm trying to enjoy it. <br />I've rebooted my masturbation practice and enjoy myself though orgasm is elusive. I do have vibrators but find that those orgasms are short and sharp, just a nervous system response and make me sore. So most nights I will just do gentle yoni massage for a while and enjoy the pleasant sensations without the peak of an orgasm. <br />I'd love to learn how to be more meditative and experience energy "orgasms" but I know that I would likely need a lot of time, guidance, and practice to acquire that type of skill. <br />I'll look forward to reading through your blog. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03275265323987503010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-58631670483671581182019-02-20T03:56:16.646-08:002019-02-20T03:56:16.646-08:00Two things to read:
https://moderntantra.blogspot...Two things to read:<br /><br />https://moderntantra.blogspot.com/2014/05/mailbag-2-tantra-for-singles.html<br /><br />https://moderntantra.blogspot.com/2013/11/multiple-orgasms-for-men.html (and the next 4 posts)<br /><br />The first one describes the best ways to combine meditation and masturbation. The second one tells you how to learn to have multiple orgasms without losing your erection, which will be very helpful when you become sexually active with a partner.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-49642482477933636202018-12-01T06:24:08.739-08:002018-12-01T06:24:08.739-08:00Hello Mam
I'm 25 Male (unmarried and Virgin to...Hello Mam<br />I'm 25 Male (unmarried and Virgin too) from India,<br />I want to know the technique of a prefect male masturbation so in future it can help me avoid PE and enjoy a great sex with my partner.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-29362993059279305542018-11-21T21:14:11.583-08:002018-11-21T21:14:11.583-08:00From what I've seen, couples who have sex less...From what I've seen, couples who have sex less than once a week will often end up having marital troubles. So take that as a minimum to aim for.<br /><br />Above that, it's really up to the two of you. Usually the person who wants less sex sets the frequency, and couples end up having sex when both people want it, or at some level in between what they each want.<br /><br />However, quality is a lot more important than quantity. When my partner and I got together 27 years ago, we had sex every day for the first two years, but the sex got shorter and shorter. The second year, it was basically 10-15 minutes each night, which was not enough for me to find it satisfying. <br /><br />When we figured out what was wrong, we started doing tantric sex and spending much more time on each encounter. Now we have sex about 3x per week, but we spend more time on it, total, than we did when we were having sex every night, and it is much more satisfying for both of us.<br /><br />My favorite positions are missionary, cowgirl, butterfly, spoons, and pronebone, but every person is different and every couple fits together in different ways, so you should experiment to find your favorites.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-40250701110182436572018-10-02T01:28:04.539-07:002018-10-02T01:28:04.539-07:00Hi Shakti! I'm 30 years old and I married!How ...Hi Shakti! I'm 30 years old and I married!How many days should a husband perform sex per a week? <br />What do advice me, regarding to good sex positions for woman? <br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17798811198879645621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-86918001731499533842017-06-19T20:48:02.587-07:002017-06-19T20:48:02.587-07:00Absolutely yes, it can be stress, which is one of ...Absolutely yes, it can be stress, which is one of the top causes of erection problems. But it also could be other health problems, so you should see a doctor about it. At least get your blood pressure checked and look up the side effects of any drugs you are taking, legal or not. Smoking, alcohol, lack of sleep, and lack of exercise are other common causes.<br /><br />You should also try to retrain yourself to use a friction-based method of masturbation. Pressure-based methods frequently create sexual problems with time. Look up "death grip" for information on breaking the habit.Shakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-13841325683055825792017-05-15T00:13:23.920-07:002017-05-15T00:13:23.920-07:00I have been masturbating by pressing against the m...I have been masturbating by pressing against the mattress since around 8 years. Recently I’ve noticed that I don’t get a proper erection. When I do, it doesn’t last for long & I’ve to put in effort to keep it which was not the case before.<br />I have a decent erection when I wake up but its not like I used to have before. Can it be stress because I'm also in a stressful phase of my life now?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-88428308364380450802016-11-25T09:38:49.374-08:002016-11-25T09:38:49.374-08:00Hi Shakti,
Thank you for your reply. Been really...Hi Shakti,<br /><br />Thank you for your reply. Been really busy with a grandchild at least 3 days/week, so I don't get back to your BB as often as I should.<br /><br />Yep, she is one hot grandma. We have been married over 42 years! One of her favorite techniques is to hold her breath for up to 2 and a half minutes (very tantric). I slowly move my hand over her entire body and then after 2 minutes move to her clitoris. She will explode when I touch it and continue to orgasm for about 30 seconds or so as I work over her entire vagina. She will thrust at least a dozen times for each orgasm, sometimes more.<br /><br />When she is done, we start all over from ground zero and try something different and she will once again have a dozen or more thrusts. We will repeat this at least 2 dozen times, so the multiplier for the session is huge! She at some point says "my clit is too sensitive, please stop!"<br /><br />I am perfectly happy to stay hard and have fun watching her enjoy her body. She became multi-multi after she turned 50. You better watch out at 52, the fun is just beginning.<br /><br />She has really enjoyed 69 more since then too. She likes to be on the bottom and she can easily take 6.5" all the way down for as long as she can hold her breath. I notice that I can thrust as deep as I want while she is having an orgasm. She is somewhere else and doesn't care how deep I go.<br /><br />When we 69 with her on top, she can work me up and down. Several times I have cum at the same time she is having an orgasm. She stays all the way down and lets me thrust down her throat. She does not swallow now, but I don't care.<br /><br />I love to give her a "landing strip" trim so she can wear sting bikini panties or a swimsuit if we are out. She is a 34A-25-33, 5'5" and 103 lbs. The body of a 30 year old so she fits right in at a pool or beach.<br /><br />We don't plan on slowing down from at least every other day sex to orgasm. Having a good jelly helps. <br /><br />As I said, I think my wife is far hotter now than ever before. Before 50 it was "one and done." Now it is "at least a dozen and 'maybe' done!"<br /><br />Thank you for your advice! Have some fun with your SO!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-4523519670078160632016-08-16T15:43:43.982-07:002016-08-16T15:43:43.982-07:00It's not normal, but it's definitely possi...It's not normal, but it's definitely possible. My SO and I are 52, we've been together since we were 28, and we follow about the same pace you do. As long as we don't get sick, I don't see any reason why we won't still be doing the same thing in our 70s.<br /><br />The key to staying passionate in a long marriage is staying healthy, loving each other, and taking the time to have sex that is really good for both partners. Surprisingly, research shows that as long as there are no big relationship problems most couples who make it past the first decade with their libidos intact stay at about the same sexual frequency into their 70s, 80s, or even 90s, until their health and stamina start to fail.<br /><br />As for having ~36 orgasms in an hour, the record under laboratory conditions is 134 in an hour. The fact that your wife is having more than 10 in that time suggests that she is getting a good solid continuous orgasm going for at least part of the time. (Good for you!)<br /><br />[There's more info on that ahead when you get to this post: Multiple Orgasms for Women http://moderntantra.blogspot.com/2013/11/multiple-orgasms-for-women.html.]<br /><br />I'm glad you found this blog. It sounds like you and your wife have already discovered a lot of the ingredients of tantric sex on your own! Keep it up! :)<br /><br />–– ShaktiShakti Amaranthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16204671934660827381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299662952978736845.post-59102404135020466422016-08-15T11:41:25.157-07:002016-08-15T11:41:25.157-07:00My 66 year old wife routinely experiences 3 dozen ...My 66 year old wife routinely experiences 3 dozen orgasms during a one-hour session during a variety of manual stimulation and 69. Each is different. She is in top condition. I get to enjoy entry or deep throat orgasm at the end. We are both in our middle 60s and have sex every other day. Is this normal? We like it!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com